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If you are using it with a partner, ensure there is enough communication, so your anal play does not end with anyone getting hurt or dissatisfied. Most butt plugs are what would be considered firm silicone. Unless a toy says ‘supersoft’ or something to that effect, assume it’s fairly firm. This unique hybrid sex toy has 4 inches of insertable length and comes with 4 “anal beads” that make anal stimulation exciting as each larger bead goes inside you. With a flexible PVC construction, this sex toy is great for butt play beginners or those with a little more experience. 15. Pipedream Icicles No. 48 – Best glass butt plug Get into a comfortable position: Before inserting the plug, take some time to relax and get into a comfortable position. It can be helpful to start by gently massaging the outside of the anus with your fingers to get the muscles relaxed. Small anal plugs, those that are made from soft jelly and anal trainer kits, are perfect for beginners. The more experienced may prefer large butt plugs and weighted metal plugs.

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Perfect if you like to feel a little bit “full” but you don’t want your anal plugs to go TOO deep, the LoveHoney Ignite is a 3-inch vibrating butt plug that is made from body-safe velvety soft silicone. Another shortcut to experiencing a different type of anal pleasure is to try out new materials. Newcomers usually get a silicone plug, and it is the safe way to go. These toys are softer, easy to use, and work with water-based lubes. But if you want to feel something different, switch the material of the plug. While the base won’t affect how the internal section of the plug feels inside your body, you may find certain base shapes more comfortable or discreet than others, so take time to explore what feels right for you. FAQs

Now, if you already tried different materials and are still looking for something more, there is an answer to your prayers. Inflatable butt plugs allow you to increase their size to the one that’s perfect for you. When you insert the toy, it is rather small, and you will do it without any effort. Once the thing is inside, you can use a pump to push the air into it and change its size. You can use them with a strap on harness. Although you’d want a plug at least 4″ to 5″ in length. This is a job better suited to a high quality dildo.